Today ( April 9th ) would have been Carol's birthday! Can you imagine how she would have liked to have celebrated it?
I am sure it would have been been with a lot of colour and class.
Since the service for Carol has had to be postponed we would like to take a little time to remember her fondly on this blog.
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Carol with Roland at their home. ( PC: Bernadette Jarrard)
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Bernadette and Carol - taken by Bernadette's daughter, Sonja |
Shortly after hearing that Carol had died, I saw someone posting photos and a few little sentences on FB about what type of lady Carol was. The photos were bright and cheerful and captured Carol so well. I messaged Bernadette and we chatted some and after hearing about her love for Carol and having heard years ago about Carol's love for Bernadette, I invited Bernadette to share a few of her memories and time with Carol.
Carol was like a second mother to me through the years, in fact we’ve been friends since I came with my Missionary family from Kenya to Parksville in the summer of 1990. Having worked and lived in Kenya for 8 years I had lost touch with how most Canadians lived or dressed.
Carol quickly stepped into the mentor role - taking me to delightful clothing consignment shops to help me get updated. It was so much fun shopping with her and afterwards I emerged - popping with colour!
In fact I never met a bolder yet quiet spoken woman such as Carol. She wasn't afraid of colours and she knew how to wear, sew and paint them. She wasn't afraid to mix up patterns either. Pink floral patterns stood against lime green plaids. Shocking Fuchsia pink walls next to dark grey or yellow ones. Lime,turquoise,yellow pillows lay side by side on her white chesterfield.
It was a feast for the eyes and wonderful to visit her and see how she had decorated this season's theme on her dining room table.
Many beautiful meals later (won't forget Carol’s yummy vegetarian meatloafs and wonderful whipped up deserts.) We kept in touch.
Carol was always there, listening, advising, sharing photos of recipes and home decorating via Pinterest.
Now, it feels so strange to me. I still reach for the phone, dial and then pause...
I realize she's not there anymore, but she will always be there, in my heart.
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Cooking and creating in her bright kitchen. PC:bj |
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Carol plumping a pillow. PC:bj |
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Visiting time at BC camp meeting at Hope. photo belongs to bj |
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Did you have an opportunity to visit Carol in her home? There was so much beauty around and lovely things to enjoy looking at. Colour and pattern were her thing and they looked exactly right. Photo by bj |
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Carol with her granddaughter, Jamie. |
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Carol and her friend, Donna. Island friends stay true friends it looks like. PC:bj |
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Busy sewing in her home. PC:bj
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Carol was so excited for this wedding. On one visit with her she told me all about it. Here she is attending the reception and having that big smile on her face. From Elle Rojas - FB page photos. |
Granddaughter Elle Rojas shared these thoughts about her Grama.
On February 29, 2020 we lost our Grandma, CarolRoland Stickle. She was an incredible and inspiring woman. Here are a few of the MANY lessons my Grandma taught me:
- There is ALWAYS enough room at the dinner table, everyone is welcome.
- Pray for people, anyone and everyone. Keep praying, every day.
- Possessions are fun and pretty. However, material items are worthless compared to human relationships.
- There is no such thing as too much colour.
- There is no such thing as too much whipping cream.
- If someone is difficult to be with, spend as much time with that person as they need. Illuminate God's love always.
- Nothing should be boring or plain. I.e. store your milk in an antique pitcher.
- At church, there is no excuse for your Bible and outfit not to match.
- Leave your door unlocked, everyone is welcome.
- Give, give give. Give your time, money, talents, food, etc. Share God's blessings.
I am so blessed she was my Grandma. As our Grandpa reminded us, we do not have hope, but rather the assurance of seeing Grandma in heaven. I can't wait to see you again Grandma. ❤️ T
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Roland and Carol enjoying Julie and Jeff's wedding despite the rain showers. PC: gq |